My home is more than 3 years old. Everyone said that she is a quiet girl. Although it is more favorable for the current society, it seems that enthusiasm and extroversion are more favorable, but I also feel that there is nothing wrong with the girl's skillfulness and gentleness. The only thing that worries me is that Qing Qing is very small and afraid of anything. The lens on the TV was a bit scary, and the story in the picture book was a little more dangerous. She was more responsive. Even when playing in the community, when she saw a small pet that was raised by someone else, she would scare and quickly hide behind me. Take her to the park on weekends. There is a uncle who looks like a clown. He is sending balloons. Many children are taking pictures around the uncle of the clown. Although Qing Qing wants to pass, she really hugs her to the clown, and she scares me tight. Let go. You said, this child is so courageous, what can I do?
Q
Afraid of small pets...
Fear of clown uncle...
The child is courageous and afraid of everything...
What should I do ? ? ?
A
Don't worry about labeling your child with "cowardly". The performance of children is often staged. The child of about three years old has just experienced a major event in life - going to kindergarten. Thus took a major step away from the mother and towards independence. At this stage, the children are more exposed to the world, the curiosity to the outside world is increasing day by day, and there is a stronger desire to explore. But at the same time, he experienced the anxiety of separation and confronted the unknown.
When a child tries to leave her mother, leave the safe zone, and explore the unknown world full of fear and novelty, it is like the first time an adult is flying, and there must be a little fear in the excitement. This is also the child at this stage, sometimes showing the reason for being afraid of anything. Therefore, we do not have to rush to label children with small courage, but to accept the child's fear, give support and encouragement. Specific analysis of specific problems, the right medicine to help children smoothly through this special period of troubles caused by unwarranted fear!
If the child is afraid of "small animals"
Don't think that only large dogs that are yelling at the bar will scare the baby. Sometimes even a beautiful butterfly or a gentle kitten can make your baby feel scared. When a butterfly suddenly wraps its wings or flies over the baby's eyes, it can cause the baby to feel attacked and fear.
What should my mother do ?
1. Mom is close to small animals. When the baby shows fear of the neighbor's dog, the mother may kneel down and gently touch the dog, and gently talk to the dog, slowly let the baby lift the dog's alert and fear.
2. Set aside the escape space. When the baby tries to approach a small animal for the first time, it is normal to retreat and escape midway. Mother must give the baby space to escape. When he flees back to you, hug him and give him comfort, so that he can give the baby more courage to explore for the second time.
3. Prepare in advance. If the baby is very afraid of the bird recently, the mother may wish to pretend to say to the baby before going to the park: "Going to the park today, we might see a lot of beautiful birds, do you want to take photos with the birds? What?†This kind of psychological preparation will help the baby to ease the tension when seeing the birds in the park.
If the child is afraid of "the clown"
The baby's perception of the world is based on his own experience. When he suddenly finds a person who looks different from the existing characters stored in the experience (such as a clown, or a heavy makeup, a strangely dressed person), Feeling nervous and scared.
What should my mother do ?
1. Let the baby know the clown in advance. If you want to take your baby to an amusement park where there may be clowns, it is best to tell the baby in advance, what kind of person the clown will be, what to do, what kind of clothes to wear. If possible, give the baby a picture of the clown in advance, or read a storybook with the clown as the main character for the baby to be mentally prepared. Tell the baby clown not to be afraid, and may also give you a gift!
2. Don't force your baby to approach a person who is afraid. If a relative or friend dresses up in the party, it is strange to make the baby afraid. Mother must not force the baby to accept the person's kiss or hug. That will only make the situation worse. Mother can hold the baby tightly and comfort him. If necessary, temporarily take the baby away from the room where the relatives and friends are located. Give your baby a period of time and let the baby slowly calm down.
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